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James Dean Mayer

April 22, 1984 - December 12, 2024
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James Dean Mayer, born on April 22, 1984, in Honolulu, Hawaii, passed away on December 12, 2024, at the age of 40. He was a devoted husband to his wife, Katey Mayer, and a beloved son to Michael James Patten, and devout American Solder. After completing his education at Monett R-I School District.  James Dean became a proud soldier of the
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Debbie Anderson left a message on December 27, 2024:
Katey, I am so very sorry. Wish I could take this pain away for you. James Dean was very special to me. Whenever I saw him, he always tried to look "big guy tough", but I believe there was a Mister Softie on the inside and I'll never forget him. It was obvious to everyone that you guys had a special love for each other, and in the coming days, months, years, keep remembering that. I am here for you if you need to talk. Love you, sweet lady.
Jill kilburn left a message on December 26, 2024:
In memory of James Dean Mayer, Jill kilburn lit a candle
SGT Tucholski left a message on December 20, 2024:
When I arrived to 3-7 FA (Schofield Barracks, HI), back in 2003/2004, I was assigned Mayer as my mentor (him the Forward Observer and I was his RTO). He was a man of few words and took his job extremely seriously. He drilled me hard on our job's knowledge and pushed me to learn faster and more than everyone else. He was tough, but fair. He was one of few people that I looked up to in my time serving and he made me a better person and soldier. Earlier in this year I reached out to some fellow platoon members and had inquired about him because he was impossible to contact online. I wish I could have told him how I was and to thank him. He will never be forgotten. Until Valhalla! 🫂🤙
Kendra McQuay left a message on December 19, 2024:
I am so sorry for your loss, Kateybug.
Brian Tabor left a message on December 19, 2024:
Spring of 2005 shortly after we returned from Afghanistan.
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Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Gabrielle withey left a message on December 18, 2024:
In memory of James Dean Mayer, Gabrielle withey lit a candle
carly rushing left a message on December 18, 2024:
I love you more than words can express and I'm here for you
Terps left a message on December 18, 2024:
Brother you helped shape me into the biker I am today and if it weren’t for you backing me up in some crazy times who knows if I’d be here still. You were and will always be considered family to me and I will forever be grateful to have known you in this life. Until we meet again I promise to look after everyone in any manner fit and from this day forward. The memories of us lumping people up at the bar together will never go away and the amazing laughs and times will forever be cherished! Rest in peace one bad mother f@&er
Crystal brashar left a message on December 18, 2024:
Love you katey
Robin Riggio left a message on December 18, 2024:
Much love Katey. In memory of James Dean.
Shelly left a message on December 18, 2024:
I am so sorry for your loss Katey... I remember after meeting him. He didn't talk much at the center. No expression. One day he walks into the center and I say, "well hello Mr. Kateys wife." First and only time I was able to make him laugh. Katey I am so sorry baby girl 😔 text me on messenger if you need anything.
Kim Thomas left a message on December 18, 2024:
In memory of James Dean Mayer, Kim Thomas lit a candle
Lisa Mchaffie left a message on December 18, 2024:
I am sorry for your loss.
Kateys mom aka Rita left a message on December 18, 2024:
In memory of James Dean Mayer, Kateys mom aka Rita lit a candle
Hellen Booth left a message on December 18, 2024:
I'm so sorry for the loss of your loved one!!
Katey Mayer left a message on December 17, 2024:
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Marcia Howard left a message on December 16, 2024:
My sincere sympathy to Katey and family.
Greenlawn left a message:
Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.
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